Originally published on May 2, 2019.
I’ve been in the SCA for nearly 30 years, and it took a long time for me to find my people in the SCA. I thought that I had done so more than once previously, but in the end, every time, I discovered I was wrong.
I made individual, life-long friends, but it wasn’t really until I came back to Ayreton and then found Raven Company that I was really home.
When someone we really care about suddenly changes the parameters of the relationship, it’s hard to handle.